Hello,

I thought I would start sharing some articles where I have found them to be insightful, thought-provoking, maybe controversial or funny. Don’t mistake “reading list” as “book reading list” that is! I do have some books in my to read list. 🙁

I read plenty of articles from Vox and other news sources on a daily basis, so here’s this week links.

I went on vacation alone. Why do people think that means I’m disturbed? by Catherine Andrews

This is the most common response — so common it seems to be mostly automatic. You’ll be chitchatting with somebody and mention that you’re taking off to the beach for a few days. Out of politeness they’ll ask who you’re going with, and you’ll tell them, “Just me!” Then it happens. Their eyes skitter everywhere. “Oh … wow … that’s so … cool!” they say — when in reality every twitching facial muscle is shouting, “Yeah, you definitely need to go on vacation. To a mental asylum. Why, oh, God, why would you ever go anywhere by yourself? You could get murdered! Worse, you might be bored! And you definitely are going to have to spend an extended amount of time alone with your thoughts — a fate worse than the random serial killer you’re sure to come across.”

Pretty darn on point. I’ve gone to the theaters alone and people look at me rather puzzled by it. Catherine really nails it down:

There can be a paralyzing sense of shame about doing activities alone that we’ve been told by society should be done with others — a shame that results from the assumption that anybody who sees you doing these things alone is judging or pitying you.

Which holds true in today’s society. As a person who enjoys doing plenty of activities alone I really recommend giving it a try.

Here’s Marvel’s new teaser trailer for Daredevil season 2 by Alex Abad-Santos

I have a little secret… well, not much of a secret. I didn’t enjoy Daredevil that much as many others have. I’m willing to give it a second run when the next season starts. That said, I’m looking forward to House of Cards new season.

I lost 100 pounds in a year. My “weight loss secret” is really dumb. by Alasdair Wilkins

(interestingly the article was written in the July 7, 2015 but somehow ended up in my feed reader in January… I guess the bump is real? Nevertheless, a great article)

The Hateful Eight, Quentin Tarantino’s new film, is a deeply interesting failure by Todd VanDerWerff

You know, this is an interesting time to release a film that many–who I dare say consciously practices political correctness as a lifestyle–find offensive, repulsive, or both. I didn’t particularly found the film to be thought-provoking, neither did I find it good or bad. I love Tarantino’s storytelling most of the time but in terms of plot it’s just a bag of mixed feelings altogether. Either way, I wasn’t offended nor disgusted… I do I agree with Todd VanDerWerff:

Pay attention to how the story works, though, and you’ll find that Daisy is granted almost no backstory beyond the bare minimum needed to set (or keep) the plot in motion. We know she’s a murderer — there’s at least a semi-convincing warrant for her arrest — but we don’t know anything about which murders she committed or why there’s a $10,000 bounty on her head.

While I don’t agree on the whole “society treatment of women” line (mostly because it’s far-fetched, and because Daisy is practically the only female that’s alive (not considering the three women Daisy’s gang members killed to get her out @ Minnie’s mostly because there wasn’t a modicum of development in any of them); the film is truly messy in terms of conveying the message to the audience. Personally, I was just indifferent to any of the characters in terms of connection or feeling anything for them as most of their conflicts were too brief, and to know it was just 3 hours long.